Thursday, July 23, 2009

Lesbian Drama With Straight Woman


Drama. I hate it.

We have a friend who is extremely overly flirty with everyone. We love love love her girlfriend. Mostly we just say, "That's just Kimmie." Until last weekend. A good friend saw her kissing the back of a straight girl's neck while they were dirty dancing.

Holding her hair up. And kissing.

The next day, Lori called me upset worried that those two were having an affair. I told her no way, that's just the way Kimmie is.

Until my friend told me about the neck kissing. I think that's different. Totally different than sitting on laps and putting your boobs in my face...which is annoying, but that's just her way.

Yesterday, I talked to Lori and everything's okay between them again. But she doesn't know about the neck thing. I wish I didn't.


20 comments:

Nolens Volens said...

You know what straight women need? Some serious licking (not dicking) from certain ladies of "different persuasions". ;)

trinity2 said...

I hate people like that! Your friend probably already knows about it and chooses to ignore it.

Dr Zibbs said...

Please post photos.

Dana said...

Odd that you posted this today. This weekend we attended a BBQ hosted by one of husband's coworkers and HER partner. 90% of the attendees were friends of theirs (many gay/lesbian couples). There was an AMAZING amount of flirting/posturing going on. I assumed it was because everyone had the freedom to do just that without concern for being judged.

I'm kind of surprised the straight girl didn't remind her of her obligation to her girlfriend. I think I would have.

SkylersDad said...

hmmm, now this is what I call discrimination against us straight guys. She gets called flirty and it's considered drama.

I get pepper sprayed and a restraining order when I do that! ;^)

Akelamalu said...

The husband of a friend is like that - it's cheating whether they're male or female. :(

Grant said...

It's time to put your vicious dog on her.

Jude said...

LMAO at SkylersDad comment.

I think any type of flirting is playing with fire.

Ashleigh said...

damn! pretty ballsy for being a chick.

Scarlet said...

Love Skylersdad's comment! lol

Neck kissing is definitely more intimate than lap dancing, I agree with you.

Karen said...

Is it really that big of a deal? If my boyfriend got too touchy with a lesbian - even kissed her I wouldn't be jealous. She wouldn't be interested in him anyway. I'd probably roll my eyes at him and laugh at him later.

Maybe it is different, but the reciever is not interested I say it is harmless.

Queen-Size funny bone said...

If everyone says thats just Kimmie then that means she has done things like this before and people are willing to overlook the behavior. Just remember you create what you tolerate.

James said...

I think her behaviour sounds a bit immature and insecure. Maybe her girlfriend lets her get away with it up to a point.

Gary Rith Pottery Blog said...

whoa!

Beth said...

ok, Skyler's dad is cracking me up!!!!

um, ya....neck kissing, not good. don't care how straight I am, you kiss my neck, ITS ON!!!!

Spiky Zora Jones said...

drama...oy.

*Puts back of hand on forehead*

"Why? Oh why does it have to be this way...WHY?"

How's that for drama.

ciao sweetie. xxx

Cloudia said...

drama, mama!

MA Fat Woman said...

Maybe she was just checking for neck pimples?

Dragon said...

Yeah I hate drama too. And kissing on the back of the neck someone else is going to far. Sounds like she is pushing her boundaries. Maybe Lori needs to talk to her and tell her she doesn't like what she does and there needs to be a limit.

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Lynette said...

hummmm sometimes it is just better to take the time to polish your heels then to listen to gossip...talk...or whatever
makes it where you can plead the fifth without having to drink one.