Thursday, February 4, 2010

Have You Ever?


Tried to help someone, but ended up doing exactly the opposite? That's what I did today. And I feel horrible about it.

19 comments:

Stephen said...

Uh Huh. Did it last Sunday. I sucked.

Gina said...

Sadly, I do it all the damn time.

GregoryJ said...

No good deed or intention goes unpunished.
I do it all the time with TW. It sucks. twice as much.

GregoryJ said...

This is not related to topic. It just came to mind after reading your "Everybody's Talking About"
I wrote a post that included women I have crushed on over the years. Some that I mentioned Sophia Loren, Raquel Welch, Farrah. A women commented that she had crushed on many of the same ones even though she was hetero. I responded, "What can I say. You have good taste."

Your Suicide story is very powerful and moving. I often wish I were dead but have never made any plans. TW, too. What a pair we are. I've been with about six therapists. Only one made any sense to me, but he quit private practice.
Thanks for your story.

Karen said...

I do it a lot, but as long as your intention was good, you shouldn't feel bad.

Ily said...

Hate it when that happens. Some days we can do no right. Hope tomorrow's a better day for both of you!

Poindexter said...

sorry, that's an awful feeling. sending a hug to you both!

Golden To Silver Val said...

ouch...I'm sorry. Believe me, I do know what that feels like.

Jeanne said...

NOT fun.

Akelamalu said...

It's easily done. :(

Dragon said...

Yes, I have and it sucks. But it wasn't intentional, I am sure they would understand that.

Linda Medrano said...

Oh I hate it when that happens! But sadly, it happens to me all the time!

Spiky Zora Jones said...

Oh my...we aall do it aat one time or another.

sorry you are sad. :(
(((HUG)))

SkylersDad said...

It happens to everyone, don't beat yourself up too much.

CheekyMonkey said...

Eh, you're good peeps. Anyone that knows you, knows that you wouldn't do that intentionally.

Queen-Size funny bone said...

we've all done

Dana said...

Yeah ... and even though I try to remind myself that I had good intentions, I usually beat myself up for a while anyway.

I hope you don't do that!

nitebyrd said...

You cared and wanted to help. I think that's all that matters.

James said...

Buy the person some flowers to say sorry.