Thursday, March 18, 2010
Long, long ago, I asked if anyone had any questions. And Jay had one. He asked:
Seems like more and more women are claiming to be bi these days. Do you think they really are, or do you think most of them are just "fashionably bi?" Hell, do you even believe that any person really is bi or do you believe we are either straight or gay?
That prompted the Fashionably Bi post.
My opinions are waffling all over the place now. I still believe that most of us fall on the scale somewhere, but pop culture has skewed that scale.
Last Saturday night, My Love and I headed out for a birthday party at the local lesbian bar. After the party, as I was sitting downstairs listening to the band, I took a look around.
My gaydar barely blipped.
Straight girls all over the place. Kissing on other straight girls. Breaking hearts of poor, little butch girls that can't see through the big hair and makeup.
Invading what used to be our sanctuary.
I just don't know what to think.