Friday, November 6, 2009

Go Ahead, Hate Me


This morning, my Love says, "Hey, let's go to the condo for the weekend."

I feel like a cad complaining, but I'm a control freak. I like to plan. I only like to be spontaneous if *I* am the one doing the spontaneous stuff because I've planned like hell in my head!

I have so much to do. I'm not a "throw a few things" in a bag and take off kind of girl. I *think* I am, but today I'm realizing that I'm not.

I'm a control freak and a planner.

But I'm a control freak and a planner that's spending a three day weekend on the Redneck Riviera.

19 comments:

Jude said...

You GO and have fun.

Melissa said...

I hope you have fun, at least! Just try to put your feet in the cold sand and let it go, there's not too much you can do about it now. I vote you'll have a blast!

Grant said...

Life has cured me of spontaneity. Now if I feel the need to be spontaneous, I carefully plan first in advance.

Jay said...

I'm kind of like you. I'm a control freak. But, I will just up and go somewhere without planning as long as it was MY idea and we're going where I want to go.

And, I like doing those things alone. ;-)

Bond said...

I prefer to be the planner - but heck-a-doodle, if my love says let's go somewhere to be alone - i am ready to leave

Dove and Tig said...

I think if I had a condo on the beach.. I would always be planning to be there!

Marsha said...

Have fun at the condo!

Jormengrund said...

after the pictures I sent you, too bad that you're not going to be in Florida, isn't it??

Enjoy your vacation!

Teri and the cats of Furrydance said...

Mike forced me to be spontaneous, me forever saying I have too much to do then not doing it. He'd just make reservations and then say "we gotta go" and we did and I loved him for it...

myveryownrainbow said...

good for you!

Redneck Riviera is sooo funny. I swear I have never heard that!

Have a fabulous weekend!

Micky-T said...

A long, long, time ago I would be ready for anywhere in as short as 1 hour.

nitebyrd said...

Enjoy! The weather should be nice up there.

Dana said...

She is so good too you and for you! I know it's hard - I also know that once you get past that you'll have a fabulous time!

Scarlet said...

Have a fantastic time!! If you can make it to Miami, call me!!!

James said...

It is good for you control freaks NOT to be in control for once in a while....enjoy it and let your missuss take the lead...

phd in yogurtry said...

Me thinks you will tame that control beast and become the beach lounger.

Lynette said...

whoooot! you laze in the sun and enjoy the time with your love

Ellie said...

I'm so jealous. I want a minibreak and I want it now.

Little T said...

Sometimes you have to give up control and let someone else drive. It sounds like your love is on to something here. I hope you girls have fun!