Tuesday, May 12, 2009

Sometimes We Just Don't Click

It's rare, but it happens.

I wouldn't have gotten all upset in a face-to-face or in a phone conversation. I would have heard the love in her voice. But we were texting. The worst possible type of conversation.

It ended with her texting:

Just settle the fuck down!!!

See, that's why I love her so much. She knows exactly when to tell me to settle down in that Yankee way that doesn't piss me off. Instead it makes me think, "Hmmm, maybe I need to settle down."

That's why I'll never let her go. She's exactly what I need.

28 comments:

aj said...

awww.. good match

Allison said...

I think we all need someone like that in our lives!

Slyde said...

thats great!

Jay said...

I think we all need to be told that every once in a while. Of course, it depends on who is telling me to do that. ;-)

Jude said...

LOL...that's perfect!

Akelamalu said...

It's good that you understand each other! :)

Evil Twin's Wife said...

The key is good communication, huh? :-)I'm glad she's in your life, too.

Lu' said...

I tell hubs to "chill the fuck out". He replies, "nice mouth". My reply "I like it"

vixen kitten said...

Awwww you guys are just to cute together!

I love this kind of open communication! *smile*

xoxo
~vk~

g-man said...

I will have to continue the "cute" sentiment. :) It is noce that you have a good understanding of the others communication style.

ChocDrop said...

It's awesome to have that kind of balance when your together.

Bond said...

Yup...perfectly matched...because if you get upset by your love telling you that, they are not your true love...

I found that out

Lynette said...

true love never ends! and yes i am an avid none texter. hummm is that a word?

Dianne said...

us Yankees do have a way with words ;)
I love how you talk about your love

Spiky Zora Jones said...

Oh fuck...I'm texting my girl right now and tell her to settle the fuck down. :)

Usually it's her (damn yankee) telling me to settle the fuck down. hehehe. And I do.

ciao honey...hold on tight.

Spiky Zora Jones said...

Oh something funny. My friend, she is so into herself. Anyway, we walked into a club to pick up guys or girls and she picked up...herself.

That is eally into ones-self. hehehe

One blonde said to the other blonde...Which one is farest away...the moon or Miami Beach?

The other blonde replied smuggly. Duh! We can't even see Miami beach.

Ta-da! :)

ciao sweetie.

Jeanne said...

I feel that same way about Old Dog!

Cloudia said...

"She's exactly what I need."
Lucky R L L!!
Aloha

Queen-Size funny bone said...

sometimes we just need a good tongue lashing.

Seamus said...

I can't type fast enough to have a convo on my phone!

Bina said...

She sounds like me! And hey, I'm a Yankee! Well, I left Ohio when I was 21 and I have lived in the south for more than 1/2 my life now, so am I still a Yankee???

Scarlet said...

There's rare and beautiful.

Jules said...

Hi Lynn. I sort of lost track of you for a bit. Nice to catch up on your life.

we're doomed said...

You are blessed to have what you need.

Aunt Jackie said...

Mr. J can't handle my over-emotional nature sometimes. It's basically the catalyst that always causes any friction we do encounter. But even if it's not always perfect, I can't think of a better match-up in this lifetime.

Things always have a way of working themselves out.

Love is grand.

Dana said...

Something tells me I'd really like her!

fiwa said...

I like a woman who doesn't mince words. Our is "Dude, you're being fucking cranky pants."

Love, Evolution, and Resilience said...

Now that is freakin' killer! I love it!