I recently found out that someone that I know cheated on their girlfriend. Now they're married and have been for 30-something years. The wife still wonders if he will cheat again. Is still jealous.
I waffle on whether I'd want to know if the love of my life cheated on me. Would it be better to not know? Or would I want to know the truth and see if we could work through it?
I am such a fence-sitter on this one.
Would you want to know? Or would you rather be blissfully ignorant?
Could you keep it a secret if you cheated...to spare the other person? Or would you blurt it out to get it off of your chest?