tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5965519181464621574.post5245495615890277119..comments2023-10-31T11:34:18.247-05:00Comments on Real Live Lesbian: IntoleranceReal Live Lesbianhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09272384473977144125noreply@blogger.comBlogger36125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5965519181464621574.post-5580782198177614682008-05-14T11:26:00.000-05:002008-05-14T11:26:00.000-05:00I love this post and thank you for being so honest...I love this post and thank you for being so honest. Why is it that so many people are unwilling to recognize the beauty in diversity? You rock hard! We became full on buds with this post because you out into words what I could not. <BR/><BR/>My husband is in the military (and thankfully he is not homophobic or racist or anything like that) so I am often in close contact with people who use unkind labels, make uneducated assumptions, and are quick to put others down who happen to fall into any minority. It is very difficult for me to hear and I can only imagine what it is like to actually be on the receiving end of such horrible ignorance.<BR/><BR/>Bless you for sharing this with all of us. We love you even more for it!<BR/><BR/>Blessings!<BR/>Lacy<BR/>www.razorfamilyfarms.comRazorFamilyFarms.comhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17417905789640513832noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5965519181464621574.post-39924035190040851162008-05-12T15:21:00.000-05:002008-05-12T15:21:00.000-05:00I think it's not really anybody elses place to put...I think it's not really anybody elses place to put a label on anybody.<BR/><BR/>The crowd I run with is made up of such a culturally diverse bunch that I guess I am kind of spoiled.Naughty Endevourshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07420944640775868223noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5965519181464621574.post-72395352453422806022008-05-12T10:39:00.000-05:002008-05-12T10:39:00.000-05:00Well said.Well said.Divahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14740513813386444402noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5965519181464621574.post-73833302019913438662008-05-12T05:44:00.000-05:002008-05-12T05:44:00.000-05:00I like the no fluff of this post. So true. I thi...I like the no fluff of this post. So true. I think all "groups" bust on themselves as was said earlier, to feel better about themselves. Doesn't make it any less wrong. Possibley by doing that it makes one feel less outside the mainstream by shiming in to their way of thinking? I'm overweight, I have short butch hair, I love my husband and I'm a bitch LOL I'm sure I fit into any number of other catagories...Lu'https://www.blogger.com/profile/11278553170295772582noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5965519181464621574.post-78371942967717210602008-05-10T11:11:00.000-05:002008-05-10T11:11:00.000-05:00Re-reading through the comments, I was reminded of...Re-reading through the comments, I was reminded of ONNNNE more thing that reallllly irritates me. Let me know if this has happened to you - <BR/><BR/>Chelle and I were on vacation in Florida last year. These guys at the hotel's tiki bar were hitting on us and we told them we weren't interested - that we were together. Oh. My. Gawd. That just made it worse. <BR/><BR/>"My life-long fantasy is to be with two women."<BR/><BR/>"Sorry, not interested."<BR/><BR/>"Oh come on! At least let me WATCH!"<BR/><BR/>"No way!"<BR/><BR/>"Pleeeeeeeeeeeeease?!"<BR/><BR/>"No! Would you let some stranger watch you and your WIFE having sex?"<BR/><BR/>"Absolutely not!"<BR/><BR/>"Well, it's the same thing!"<BR/><BR/>He just wouldn't/couldn't see it that way. Asshat.KellyKlinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10007327562795028480noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5965519181464621574.post-44821823063358638002008-05-10T08:56:00.000-05:002008-05-10T08:56:00.000-05:00I can't really say anything that hasn't been said....I can't really say anything that hasn't been said. You nailed it, everyone who commented nailed it.<BR/><BR/>I swiped Kel's "I don't mind straight people as long as they act gay in public." button but I have no idea what I'm gonna do with it. I think I want a t-shirt...Biscuithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07214037983461918187noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5965519181464621574.post-22952773005221364892008-05-09T21:31:00.000-05:002008-05-09T21:31:00.000-05:00Labels and stereotypes are coming up a lot these d...Labels and stereotypes are coming up a lot these days, in my life, the lives of my friends, the lives of the bloggers I read and who read me. Thank you for calling it what it is: intolerance.<BR/><BR/>I've been away, too, so I'm just now learning you're back. But goodness, it's good to know!BostonPobblehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08900134112278236654noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5965519181464621574.post-68150221752696988082008-05-09T15:20:00.000-05:002008-05-09T15:20:00.000-05:00You know I think of it this way...you can't help w...You know I think of it this way...you can't help who your heart chooses. If they make you feel like it's a fine time to be alive. Short hair...long hair, Woman...man, it doesn't matter, just as long as they are the one that makes your heart make flips.<BR/><BR/>For me it was her. I have been with her 15 years and she still holds my heart...hard to express without going into poetry. <BR/><BR/>I wear lipstick and I am an athletic girl. I play softball (second base), basketball, (point guard) and bach volley ball. I even ran track...But I love all the girlie things too. I don't like to put up fences...and those that do can't keep me out. My girl...is the girlie type too, but that doesn't mean a thing. I would have fallen in love with her if she had short hair and wore a tool belt...BTW I own three. Ahem. I fix things and when I can't I call someone to show me. <BR/><BR/>Anyway I own three tool belts, one is for those nights when she says she wants me to wear it...just it. <BR/><BR/>Leather tools belts...rock.<BR/><BR/>fab post honey.<BR/><BR/>Ciao babes. hehehe.Spiky Zora Joneshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09283587481327552086noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5965519181464621574.post-75439044724995801162008-05-09T12:14:00.000-05:002008-05-09T12:14:00.000-05:00I have to agree with you. I can't stand intoleranc...I have to agree with you. I can't stand intolerance. Especially when it is born out of ignorance... <BR/><BR/>(and who knew there were so many "categories" of lesbians)??Dochttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11447894721374720415noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5965519181464621574.post-13027547409441274162008-05-09T06:39:00.000-05:002008-05-09T06:39:00.000-05:00Amen to that sista! Amen to that!Amen to that sista! Amen to that!The Mistress of the Darkhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16923975714269274370noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5965519181464621574.post-43960755307111013342008-05-09T06:06:00.001-05:002008-05-09T06:06:00.001-05:00You have such a good heart...this was a great post...You have such a good heart...this was a great post.<BR/><BR/>I understand why people respond to our surfaces, but I'll never understand why anyone makes such personal assumptions based on it.<BR/><BR/>Well, and it's so much more disappointing when it comes from a group you identify as your own...b/c you expect them to know better.Johttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09638509010212406012noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5965519181464621574.post-77421858196308247412008-05-09T06:06:00.000-05:002008-05-09T06:06:00.000-05:00Men are ok if you're in to that sort of thing, but...Men are ok if you're in to that sort of thing, but I'm like you, I prefer to romp in the hay with women. ;)captain corkyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10782650450297504567noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5965519181464621574.post-32198074399911541232008-05-09T06:01:00.000-05:002008-05-09T06:01:00.000-05:00In response to what Kelly had to say...It's very a...In response to what Kelly had to say...It's very annoying to hear the guys that think they can 'convert' a lesbian. As if they hold the key to a woman's happiness in their hands everytime they take a leak. When I hear stupid crap like that...I usually tell them 'Dude, they like penis....just not the ones attached to a man'. (I actually stole that from a lady comic from about ten years ago. But, it does give the fellas pause.)<BR/><BR/>As for the main point of the post....Discrimination on any level is horrible.Tall Man Mollyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16471758933555350209noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5965519181464621574.post-79520321156673493892008-05-09T04:14:00.000-05:002008-05-09T04:14:00.000-05:00As usural, my dear, your take is right on! People...As usural, my dear, your take is right on! People like to have little labels for people so that they can pin them into their own story easily. People are people and should simply be judged and dealt with on the basis of their actions and the relevance of those actions on each of us as individuals. All of us can experience and display the full gamut of emotions and attitudes available to the human race and so we are as flexible as we are identifiable in our own skins. It's less important that this pigeonholing comes from "within your own group" than it is that it exists at all. Those of us with half a brain, take folks as the individuals that they are. You lady, are one rare individual. Rock on, you individual you!!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5965519181464621574.post-49560933135962084542008-05-09T01:48:00.000-05:002008-05-09T01:48:00.000-05:00People's ignorance leaves me startled sometimes. S...People's ignorance leaves me startled sometimes. Some are so quick to assign a label, to try to define people - when no one fits into any one category. This happens more frequently when people feel threatened by their own ignorance. <BR/><BR/>I keep wishing for the day when I figure out how to eradicate that kind of hatred.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5965519181464621574.post-67795008791425503232008-05-08T22:59:00.000-05:002008-05-08T22:59:00.000-05:00People who label others aren't sure of themselves....People who label others aren't sure of themselves...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5965519181464621574.post-22558051161531962212008-05-08T15:49:00.000-05:002008-05-08T15:49:00.000-05:00I despise labels and feel that those who rely on t...I despise labels and feel that those who rely on them are lazy brained and sometimes afraid.<BR/><BR/>I like to get to know people as they are.Liz Hillhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02112548452165588580noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5965519181464621574.post-6382500587601481232008-05-08T14:02:00.000-05:002008-05-08T14:02:00.000-05:00Live and let live I say, no-one should be labelled...Live and let live I say, no-one should be labelled.Akelamaluhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11234268568845148285noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5965519181464621574.post-66246906107095116542008-05-08T10:38:00.000-05:002008-05-08T10:38:00.000-05:00labels hurt...regardless of what it is. Labels ar...labels hurt...regardless of what it is. Labels are for ignorant people..I say, be who you are and screw everyone else.Angelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06245554563405436101noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5965519181464621574.post-31241371186360878472008-05-08T08:00:00.000-05:002008-05-08T08:00:00.000-05:00My sweet Sunshine girl is a 'lipstick' lesbian...a...My sweet Sunshine girl is a 'lipstick' lesbian...and her partner is what everyone calls 'butch'...long hair, but no makeup and wears jeans and boots and a hat all day. I don't get why there has to be a label though. Kinda like..tall,short,fat,skinny,...why labels? Of course I was called a 'Tomboy' when I was young cuz I liked to skate and ride my bike and play in the mud. Hummm...I just don't understand why we have to attatch a label to people.<BR/>P.S.<BR/>I love that lipstick you have on in your pic...tres chic...**wink**tthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14157492410943794052noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5965519181464621574.post-85478032201844131482008-05-08T07:34:00.000-05:002008-05-08T07:34:00.000-05:00ah, the butch/femme continuum, arent we all a bi...ah, the butch/femme continuum, arent we all a bit butch in some ways, a bit femme in some ways, and a bit ambigious as well? I think that the women (in our community specifically) who have such a hard time accepting the "butch" women into the niche are experiencing a touch of internalized homophobia, and a little bit of their own insecurity with identity. What difference does it make to me how another woman wants to dress and look? I had some friends who called my girlfriend of the time, "your boyfriend" (because she was quite butch). It was offsetting to me,hurtful to the girlfriend, and they are no longer my friends. I'm with buffalodickdy - labels are for products, not people.Fortune Cookieshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17336291956469689578noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5965519181464621574.post-13997591263101023572008-05-08T06:40:00.000-05:002008-05-08T06:40:00.000-05:00These words are profound because they speak volume...These words are profound because they speak volumes on a subject that hits everywhere...intolerance and the need to categorize people. Sadly we see it in the homeschooling community far too often too. <BR/>So, be true to you and your higher power and that is what life should be all about.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11518964123008830311noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5965519181464621574.post-45040096585415460472008-05-08T01:51:00.000-05:002008-05-08T01:51:00.000-05:00I have to get caught up on everybody, just wanted ...I have to get caught up on everybody, just wanted to let you know I'm alive and missed you!<BR/><BR/>I am glad you think me and my kind are nice (men)<BR/><BR/>=)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5965519181464621574.post-44008999784402590792008-05-07T23:52:00.000-05:002008-05-07T23:52:00.000-05:00Let's do away with all labels and let's all just b...Let's do away with all labels and let's all just be people...wait, that's a label isn't it? Hmmm....guess I need a new word..but then that would be a label too...<BR/><BR/>AHHHHHH...it's a Catch-22!!! (which is also a label)<BR/><BR/>I'll go with Popeye's sentiment - "I am what I am" and that's all anyone else needs to be as well...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5965519181464621574.post-6868271185627142642008-05-07T20:57:00.000-05:002008-05-07T20:57:00.000-05:00I came over to your blog from a comment you left o...I came over to your blog from a comment you left on one of Hammer's posts. After reading through some of your posts... Wow. You sound like someone I'd just love to give a big hug to! I love the way you sound like a gentle, caring woman while being totally blunt and calling it like you see it. <BR/><BR/>By the way, I showed my husband the post with the USMC body paint on the women. He was just discharged from the Marine Corps a year ago, and we both enjoyed those pictures. :)Arcadia Irishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00163489155225065779noreply@blogger.com